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2025-09-10⏱️ 0:50:10Analyzed

Jeremy Hurewitz

Communication Tactics Spies Use To Close Deals β€’ Jeremy Hurewitz

AuthorInterfore InternationalπŸ“ New York
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Episode Summary

In this episode, Jeremy Hurewitz shares insights from the world of espionage to enhance communication and sales skills. He discusses techniques like mirroring, empathy, and elicitation to build rapport and understand client needs. These strategies are particularly useful for real estate agents looking to improve client interactions and close more deals.

🎯 Key Timestamps

09:00

Building rapport with clients

Use mirroring and radical empathy to make clients feel comfortable and understood.

37:00

Understanding client needs without direct questioning

Use elicitation techniques to subtly gather information by sharing personal anecdotes.

🎬 Clip-Worthy Moments

contrarian take10:30 - 11:15
"Spies are the world's best salespeople because there is no harder sale to make."

Hook: What do spies and top salespeople have in common?

memorable oneliner28:00 - 28:45
"The melody is body language and tone of voice, and the words are the lyrics."

Hook: Why your words might be the least important part of communication.

πŸ’‘ Key Tactics

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Use verbal mirroring to build rapport.

In conversations, subtly use the same phrases and words as the other person. (15:00)

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Apply elicitation by sharing personal stories.

Reveal something about yourself to encourage the other person to share. (38:00)

πŸ’¬ Quotable Insights

"Every good intelligence officer has a real bond with their target on some level."
"People want to do business with those that they like."

Full Description

Jeremy Hurewitz discusses the connection between espionage and salesmanship and how they both involve understanding human motivation and psychology. Jeremy also talks about radical empathy and mirroring techniques and the importance of using subtle physical and verbal cues to make people feel comfortable. Next, Jeremy shares tips on elicitation techniques in sales in extracting information without direct questioning. Jeremy emphasizes the importance of building rapport and trust with clients.

You can buy Jeremy’s book “Sell Like A Spy: The Art of Persuasion from the World of Espionage” here.

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Jeremy Hurewitz can be reached here.

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Topics Covered

Communication skills in espionageMirroring and empathy in salesBody language and nonverbal cuesElicitation techniquesActive listening

Resources Mentioned

Sell Like a Spy

book β€’ Jeremy's book that teaches communication skills from espionage.