Paul Salter
When Everything Feels Like an Attack • The Inner Game of Real Estate Success • Paul Salter
Episode Summary
In this episode, Paul Salazar shares his journey from starting in real estate to becoming a top luxury agent in Beverly Hills. He discusses the importance of mindset, persistence, and strategic networking, offering actionable insights on breaking into high-end markets through cold calling, door knocking, and creating detailed marketing materials for developers.
🎯 Key Timestamps
Breaking into the luxury real estate market without existing connections
Paul used cold calling, door knocking, and networking to build his presence in the luxury market, emphasizing the importance of persistence and creating detailed marketing materials.
Lack of confidence in transitioning to luxury sales
Paul overcame his mindset barriers by listening to motivational podcasts, engaging with a coach, and gradually building his confidence through small wins.
🎬 Clip-Worthy Moments
"I emailed my resume to about 10,000 agents... I got about 17 interviews."
Hook: Want to break into luxury real estate? Here's a bold strategy that worked for Paul Salazar.
💡 Key Tactics
Cold calling expired listings in luxury markets
Paul used this method to build his clientele and gain experience in high-end real estate. (33:00)
Creating detailed offering memorandums for developers
Paul prepares comprehensive marketing materials to attract developers to potential tear-down properties. (46:00)
💬 Quotable Insights
"The more vulnerable you get, the more uncomfortable you get, the more difficult things you do, the more you start to feel empowered by yourself."
Full Description
Welcome to The Inner Game of Real Estate Success with high-performance hypnotherapist and mindset coach Paul Salter.
When Everything Feels Like an Attack: How to Defuse Anger, Reactivity, and Taking Things Personally in Business
In this episode, Paul unpacks why high-performing real estate entrepreneurs are so easily triggered by feedback, questions, and perceived criticism—and how those reactions quietly sabotage leadership, relationships, and results. Learn why your nervous system is wired to feel attacked, how unresolved doubt and identity gaps fuel anger and defensiveness, and how reframing triggers as teachers can help you respond with clarity, composure, and authority instead of reactivity.
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The Miracle Morning
book • Recommended for establishing a productive morning routine to boost daily performance.